Has your boyfriend or husband just broken up with you? Perhaps you’re heartbroken and depressed and don’t see any chance of him ever coming back to you again. Do you want to drive that final nail in the coffin and completely obliterate any chance that you might have of getting him back? Follow these powerfully effective steps to further alienate your ex from you and completely remove any chance of getting back together with him.
Contact Him – Call him, text him, email him or even show up at his house or place of work. It might appear to uneducated outsiders that your constant attention is an attempt to win him over and convince him to come back to you but you know better. You know that your unrelenting attempts to make contact with him are an effective way to completely drive him away and make yourself appear weak and needy to your ex. As a nice side benefit, your constant attention and unrelenting contact will boost your ex’s ego to the point that he will feel wonderful about himself and no doubt seek out another mate younger and prettier than you. Once they are married you can pat yourself on the back and ask him for a thank you for helping boost his ego and driving him to find someone else.
Tell Him That You Love Him – He is a guy after all and he might actually forget that you ever loved him. Guys do forget a lot of stuff like anniversaries, birthdays and putting the toilet seat up. Remind him on a daily basis that you still love him in spite of how he crushed your heart. Once again, it will allow your ex to view you as weak and needy and kind of pathetic. He will lose all respect for you if you continue to tell him that you love him given that you are saying that you love someone that trashed your life and who doesn’t appear to love you back. The feelings that your vocalizations of your undying love will bring out in him will go far beyond pity and given his ever increasing ego, he will never be able to fathom ever being with you. Awesome!
Talk About Your Relationship – If you do manage to get your ex to talk to you make sure that you let him know that you want to talk about what went wrong in your relationship, your feelings and how you think you can fix everything. Let him know that you’ll agree to change anything that he ever had a problem with. Guys hate talking about their feelings but even more than that they live to sort through the problems in a relationship. I bet you didn’t know that! There is a very good chance that he would rather have punji sticks shoved up under his fingernails than talk about his feelings or your relationship but keep on pushing. There is a very good chance that he will hang up with you if you’re on the phone or run screaming from the building as if his hair was on fire if you persist long enough.
Your Appearance – There will no doubt come a day when you will run into your ex. It might happen at the mall or at a restaurant. Make sure that you don’t look rested and don’t smile. Whatever you do don’t smile. If you can pull it off, act extremely depressed, tired and haggard. You don’t want him seeing you as attractive ever! If he does catch you happy and smiling and looking hot he might actually find you attractive again so ratty clothes with an unbathed street-dweller look should be your new style. If he looks away or seems repulsed but he doesn’t try to hide from you or flee the building you can always approach him and tell him that you want to talk about your relationship and what went wrong. The use of the word closure is a popular buzzword that you can feel free to throw around at will like a battleaxe.
If you follow this advice there is little doubt that your ex will never want anything to do with you ever again. Good job! Of course, these same tips could be used in reverse to keep from driving your ex away from you and allowing you some time to come up with a plan to actually get your ex back if you wanted to.
I hope that this has made you smile a little bit and realize that sometimes we try to follow our heart but only wind up destroying the dream that we wish to live. If is it your dream to get back together with your ex I want that for you. It’s going to be difficult to do the things necessary to win him back but I know that you can do it. Just keep from destroying your chance and smile a little bit. I am pretty sure that he loved you the most when you smiled…
To learn how to get him back go to our Relationship Articles Library. Find out how you really can get him back quickly and easily if that is what you really want… and smile because you can get him back.
Good Luck!
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